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Sonders of a Bean

A message to myself when I’m in my 60’s

Even as I get older, it’s not that I will not miss the ability to live by my body, the free ability to run, to swim, or the ability to…

2 min readOct 3, 2022

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A message to myself when I’m in my 60’s

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Sonders of a Bean

How we become shaped from childhood and later experiences

Shaped from childhood, different experiences later in adulthood, we come to carry ourselves with all different complexities. We may be…

2 min readJul 26, 2022

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How we become shaped from childhood and later experiences

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Sonders of a Bean

As human, we feel fearful

A lot of times we may feel like life is scary. As human, we do feel uncertainty. The heart isn’t always going to feel safe.

2 min readJul 21, 2022

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As human, we feel fearful

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Sonders of a Bean

Accepting that life has suffering

To be able to live life well is to accept the suffering that comes with it

2 min readJun 3, 2022

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Accepting that life has suffering

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Sonders of a Bean

You shouldn’t have all the answers

You should tell your brain it doesn’t need all the answers now. Comfort doesn’t depend on now finding the truth to your problems. I mean…

2 min readMay 31, 2022

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You shouldn’t have all the answers

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Sonders of a Bean

We aren’t against the idea that love exists

Dear readers, let’s have the difficult conversations here.

1 min readMay 25, 2022

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We aren’t against the idea that love exists

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Sonders of a Bean

Different feelings are okay

Feelings are okay, deep feelings, are okay. You get better at them. You get better at realizing that.. you are bigger than those thoughts…

2 min readMay 20, 2022

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Different feelings are okay

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Sonders of a Bean

Depression and Life

Depression may have convinced us that we will have to stick with the label they gave us. We are entitled to the title ‘diagnosed with…

1 min readMay 13, 2022

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Depression and Life

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Sonders of a Bean

Am I nothing without others?

I was in a time hanging between trying to feel connected to myself and between depending on people to offer me this sense of feeling…

2 min readMay 12, 2022

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Am I nothing without others?

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Sonders of a Bean

You suffering is not a curse by God

A quite prevalent idea exists in some practiced beliefs, that if you have a mental illness, it is sought as “a test from God to see how…

2 min readMay 12, 2022

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You suffering is not a curse by God

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Sonders of a Bean

Sonders of a Bean

‘Sonders of a Bean’: realizing that each human is living a life as vivid and complex as my own & me trying to write these experiences through sonder & imagin.

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